... At the foot of the Hill [Psalm 121]

Oct 31, 2010

Writer's Blocked???

This is unfair! That is all i can say about this. But why does this have to happen to every body that writes?

Writer's block is a condition, associated with writing as a profession, in which an author loses the ability to produce new work!

I'm just writing this as a way of encouraging myself because right now i have this and it sucks really cuz you wanna write so bad but you are dry (litrally)...

Since i dont i've inspiration to write i decided to use my disappointment as a blessing...

Thinking hard am gonna likin the 'blocked life of a writer' to life itself.
In life we all have the highs and lows. I've not been on this earth long but i've been long enough to know that there are some times when you get extremely happy, that you might even kiss your dog and other times you are just emmm....i won't say 'sad' lemmi say 'extra low' that you don't even feel like getting out of bed to even take a bath, at this point in my life i dont even feel like getting out of bed.

The question now is what do you do those times? Honestly i was still trying to figure it out the answer a few minutes before i picked up the courage to put something down in my book...

When i picked up my pen to write i had no idea what to write about and i tink someone to me 'make the best out of whatever situation you find yourself' either its when you feel like kissing your dog or when you feel like staying under the covers, make the best of it, use it to your advantage and trust me you will feel so so good about it cos right now i feel good that i turned my BLOCKED situation to emmm....(i dont v the word o) i guess UNBLOCKED!

Oct 24, 2010

Day 18: Someone i wish i could be

MTN has really bin dulling me!! Am sori for the zillionth time....

Well there is no one i wish i could be like because this is MY story and as the day go by i am writing my own fairy tale, i really hope people would stop re-living other people's lives and start writing theirs...Its not too late you know!

Day 19: My view on gay marriage

What is gay Marriage?? This is the union between two individuals of the same sex in 'UNHOLY' matrimony...

Am gonna try not to get too spiritual here but there is no way we talk bout this and not refer to God's Commandment...

Some people say 'whats wrong with being attracted to people of the same sex' well here is your answer EVERYTHING!!!!

Lately i've had like 2 people tell me being a lesbian is cool but its gross being gay WTF abeg wats d difference??

This is absolulty wrong in all ramification Biblically, Morally, Physically gosh it even violates d law of magnetism ''unlike poles a attract and like poles repel'' am guessn this gay people did not pay attention in introductory technology class...

What make people 'turn' gay??
Yeah i said turn because am so sure God did not creat anyone gay...
i did not make any research before i wrote this bcos there should not be any justification for this ridiculous and shameful act

God commanded ''be fruitful and multiply'' and last i checked or rather anytime i would eva check guys dont impregnate guys so wats gonna happen to fruitfulness and multiplication?? If i hear u say adopt there you suppose chop slap!

I Hear some non-gay people say 'there is nufin bad about it, they are human and they are free to express their feeling' common shattap jor why can't you do it too?
One thing i want to tell anyone who knows a gay or lesbian is to do the person a HUGE favour and take the person to the nearest MOUNTAIN OF FIRE AND MIRACLES MINISTRY bcos all that person needs is some good old fashioned deliverance...

So marriage??? Thats the height of insanity...
I'm not judging the people that find themselves in this situation but i just suggest you get in touch with your soul, talk to your body, talk to a christian shrink and change your sexual orientation...enough said! I pray God helps us all...

Oct 22, 2010

day 17: Someone from my Childhood

Warning: This is probably gonna be the driest post ever cos where i am right now i did not get internet connection to use my phone to update all morning......


Honestly i don't have anything to write because today was not exactly a good day for me *too long story* you dont wanna know trust me... anyways i'm just updating nnow because i don't want to fail in my challenge, so am gonna highlight what i've bin doin lately/ what i've bin goin through

1. Trip to Ife...Trust me i needed it...
2. Got a new ASST. Boyfriend *don't ask*....i like him (if u r ma friend and u r intrested in knwin ask me...lol)
3. IT report.. its harder than au it sounds trust moi
4. Thinking hard about taking my writing seriously...It sounds like a really good idea, i've spoken to a couple   of pple
5. I saw a couple of old friends....gosh that felt so good..if i saw u this week..mmuuaaahhhh
6. I saw my 'FRIEND....It was so good to see you after wat seemed like forever..
7. Right now am chatting wif ma nu asst. bf and am feeling all mushy...bite me!
8. I Love myself and YOU
9. truthfully i dont actually have anything else to write....

Remember i warned you it waas gonna be boring so please don't blame me, lets Blame PMS today.....

Oct 21, 2010

Day 16: someone in Not in my state or Country/ Are promises really made to be broken???

So in my quest of makin this challenge intersting to read am changin todays topic....
Really why now? I ask myself but on a second thought why not! Let us just deal with this and move on with our lives as better and changed people don't you think?
Am so sure everybody at one point or another has had a promise broken..well like i always do i speak for myself.
I've had everyone in my life make a promise to me at some point and still break it on my head..ouchh!
Really why do people break promises, well i think its just bcos they dont know the defination of the word promise so am gonna help you, the dictionary meaning of promise is:
''-a sign of future success
-to say or give one's word
-to say or give one's assurance that one will or will not do something.''
When you say things like
'i will call you, i'll call you tomorrow, i'ld clean the mess up, i will always make you happy, i will always love you, i will love you for the rest of my life'
Well NEWS FLASH those are not just mere words they are PROMISES and they are not made to be broken...
what are the effects of breaking promises??
The one and most important effect is you the breaker would not be trustworthy and the breakee would be unhappy and would find it hard to trust people
I won't act all innocent like am not guilty of breaking promises i am! In short everyone is guilty, and am putting this as a reminder to remind myself that i have to remember not to break promises anymore because its improtant we all know the significance of the things that come out of our mouth and if that promise has mistakenly slipped out please endevour to follow it through and if you know you can't 'DONT SAY THE WORD'

Oct 20, 2010

Day 15: The person i miss the most

Today i'm half way through my challenge. I became lazy to update so i say ''Devil is a liar''... Well the truth be told i have been working on my IT report all day and its really not easy trust me...

So who did i miss the most actually i dont have a specific someone cos all day i have been searching my brain but all i know is that i miss all my bestfriends soo much i would love to hang out with them anytime soon...i love you guyz...

oK! am sensing that this thingy is getting boring so i would try my best to make it more interesting after....



P.S: I am trying to take my writing thing more seriously so i spoke to a few people today and am thinkin if things work out well by the grace of God you will be seeing my articles in places other than my blog hehehe....

Oct 19, 2010

Day 14: Someone from whom i've Drifted

Gosh i totally forgot i had to do this....

Ok! So who have i drifted from??? emm... Yeah my Laptop gosh i've so missed ma baby altho' she doesnt have a name but she is my baby, since i left school for my internship i've abandoned her and am sure she felt it... So baby this is my public apology to you since we still have a long way to go together, you would be with me through IT report, my lonely days, project proposal, project et all...and am sure you would not 'baje' on me...love you boo boo and i've missed ya loads...

Ps: i've really bin having alot of typos in ma posts lately i am sori and to y'all dt told me much love mhen....now i promise to proof read before i post....thanks...

Oct 18, 2010

Day 13: FICTIONAL bOok

Altho' i have not finished this book not to talk of the rest of the series..but the little i've read from this book...its breath taking...Really i wonder what goes on in the heads of writer like ted dekker...and to know that they 've not used 5% of their brains hmmm....what wld now happen if they were using it...enough said!
I just love this book....tho' its old but the series is a MUST read!

End of the Year Already????

This is past midnight and i can't sleep am just listening to the all the songs on me phone hmm...so what am i gonna do? I just pick up my diary and decide to go down memory lane wow its funny how time flies and its almost the end of the year wow so according to the records of my diary what have i achieved this year so far
1. New year one month fasting
2. Better grades...this is good
3. A broken relationship
4. Fabulous/ lonely single life
5. New lesson: Everything happens for a reason
6. Another lesson: people are in our lives for a reason..just figure it out..
7. Countless Fights with ma parents @ diff times
8. Plan to run away..i did not execute it
9. Lesson: God knows all wat we pass thru..its just to make u stronger don't give up!
10. I started my blog-one of d best decisions v made all year...
11. Lesson: follow your heart
12. Lost a friend...he did not die oo bt we just aint friends animore
13. Started planning for my charity- this is still in d pipeline i hope to do somthin before the end of the year God willing
14. I almost had another Boyfriend at some point
15. Planned the next 7years of my life already!
16. Tried getting closer to God...its working am glad
17. Made alot of new friends this year can't even count...
18. Lost a fone, lost another sim, bought anoda fone
19. Finished my Internship wif ma head up high..
so am gonna stop at 20 dnt wanna bore u...
20. Hanging out with older guyz hmm...am still single tho'
Ok! This is not all but really i myself am beginning to get bored with all of dt...anyways so ma question is what have YOU achieved this year so far???

Oct 17, 2010

Day 12: The person i hate/ the person that has caused me the most pain

I've Learnt not to hate people, so i don't hate anybody honestly.
I know people i've caused me pain well look through Day 7 all of those people in their own way ve caused me pain but am not sure who caused me the most pain...

oh! Yeah i remember my bicycle has caused me the most pain, in those days that was the period i had the injuries from learning and doing stunts with it hmm...since i stopped riding i've not gone to d clinic to complain for injuries...opps sori i was asked who not what ok!
k this is nt exactly my bicycle but it was kinda similar...lol


So i don't have a anyone that has caused me so much pain...cos i have a very forgiving spirit so i've forgiven everyone i guess!

Oct 16, 2010

Day 11:A deceased person whom i wish i could have talked to

This is quite easy and am grateful to God for not letting me be in the position where i lost anyone close to me to regret not talking to the person. So there is no one well except if i can put in Yaradua sha..cos really i hope to ,eet one president and since yaradua is dead then maybe he fits on here...

Oct 15, 2010

Day 10: Someone i don't talk to as much as i'ld like to...

So meet my friend-turned-not friends anymore..but for the records i still consider him ma friend, even if he does not know....so here is our little story...We met randomly on facebook yeah facebook! (there r actually good people there contrary to ur tinkin) we got talking and we found common grounds and really it was one of the best friendships i've ever had! Yeah its now 'had' cos we drifted apart as fast as we became close...lemmi blame distance well its nt a human being so it can talke d blame without complain....anyways i know the possibilities of us making up is second to none but i just want it to be in records that i appreciated the friendship while it lasted....Now there is no one 'flash' again and noone to yab me for flashin....i won't lie i miss our friendship...
He raps and he is a poet so check out his blog www.orefakorede.blogspot.com

Oct 14, 2010

Day 9: Someone i wish i could meet

Apologies cos i wont have pictures today, and sori this is coming late...anyways who would i love to met??emmm....plenrrryyy people scratch that plenrry celebrities...so am just gonna pick my top 5...
Am really thinking hard for this one oo cos i dont even know who my best celebrity is but lets go sha..am gonna be doing it the naija style

1. Joke silver- gosh she is so talented and really intelligent

2. Lagbaja - ma curiousity wants to knw wats behind rather who is behind the mask...btw i love his style of music

3. Chris oyakilome - i dont attend christ embassy but i just love listening to him preach

4. Joseph Benjamin - yeah! Dt project fame presenter...i dnt knw why he is here but i knw i wanna meet him maybe cos he is cute emm nd d way he lips curves wen he speaks hmm enuf said...
5. Osa Seven - ok! U might not know him but i do! i chat wif this guy alot kinda, funny thing i dont even know au it all started and am not even sure i have his real name..i just know am ready to meet him, ready for our 'first time'....
Dear MI, Tuface, Wizkid, etc i know you probably wanted to be on my list but am sori i aint feeling you again btw tuface am not really ready to have a baby....#okbye

Read this...

CORPORATE SOCIAL IRRESPONSIBILITY IN AFRICA: THE BHARTI AIRTEL – MTV AFRICA CASE STUDY

by Tari Ekiyor

My fellow Africans, I write this day to bring to your attention, a case of gross injustice, deception and disregard being committed against the entire nation of Africa, particularly her children.

Zain (now Bharti Airtel) and MTV Networks Africa, are the perpetrators of this bizarre crime against the collective African identity.

"Giving Africa a Voice"

This statement is the slogan attached to the MTV Africa Music Awards, sponsored by Bharti Airtel. The MTV Music Awards is MTV's signature continent specific Annual music Awards event which is held annually in celebration of musical achievement around the world.

The MTV platform is very well recognized globally, and Africa was proud when in 2008, the first ever MAMA's was held in Abuja, Nigeria. Zain has been the official sponsor since then, and still remains the official sponsor now as Bharti Airtel.

The establishment of the MAMA's is a great opportunity for the achievement of African Artistes to be celebrated on a global stage, and a number of artistes including Kenya's Nameless and Nigeria's M.I. have won the coveted award in different categories.

Fantastic as the opportunity created by the MAMA's is for African music, the claim they are making through the slogan is absurd and a slap on the face of an entire continent. How can a platform which was established in 2008 claim to have given VOICE to a continent which over the centuries has been distinctly heard through great men and women who have been her voice within her borders and beyond.

Maryam Makeba, Fela Anikulapo-Kuti, Daddy Showkey, Wole Soyinka, Chinua Achebe and even the great Nelson Mandela are all celebrated African voices. Not even mentioning those people I have never heard about who have been voices for Africa in their respective life endeavors. Were all these people given their voices by the MAMA's?

The Voice of an individual goes beyond the audible expression we hear in music, poetry or in everyday communication. Your 'Voice' is who you are. It is that unique expression of your passion, your beliefs and your values.

It is what distinguishes you from everybody else. It is what you stand for and what you represent.

Your 'Voice' is your unique identity as a human being.

It is also possible to have a collective voice as a nation, institution or a family. Corporate bodies have voices. Bharti Airtel has a voice, and so does MTV.

It is worthy of note that the MTV Awards platforms in other continents of the world do not have such a claim attached to it. Why can they get away with this open deception and patronizing statement, only here in Africa?

As a Volunteer Teacher in a public secondary school in Lagos, I was blessed to be acquainted with the most delightful set of children I have ever known. I taught Literature to students in SS1-SS3, placing them between the ages 14-17.

However, it was also a very challenging experience in terms of getting them to find and express their own opinions and ideas about themselves, their environment and the world at large. You might ask why that was so difficult for these kids, and I'll tell you:

They have been made to believe they have no VOICE.

The 'giving Africa a voice' slogan of the MAMA's ignites fire to the coal of identity dysfunction present within our collective African youth.

The endorsement of such an absurd statement by a trusted Tele-Communications Brand, is one of those 'Only in Nigeria' occurrences. Zain/Bharti Airtel primarily targets the youth sector of our population with their products.

One of the claims Zain makes in her Corporate Social Responsibility Mission Statement, is 'To produce a positive impact on society and our stakeholders, now and in the future'

Everyone knows that the youth are the prime stakeholders for the future of every nation, so by endorsing the MAMA's slogan, Zain/Bharti Airtel has failed tragically in her CSR Mission.

On the 17th of August, 2010, I published an article on my Blog, TARIERE, titled 'MTV Africa Music Awards: the Little White Lie' which raised the alarm on the lie being propagated by these corporate giants.

My readers were enlightened, and reacted with the expected angst and disappointment at the level of Corporate Irresponsibility. We went further to write an online Petition asking MTV Networks Africa and Zain to change the slogan and take responsibility for the damage caused to the psyche of African youths, by creating new Content which will bring a re-orientation to the minds of their young audience.

The Petition currently bears the signatures of young Africans both at home and in the Diaspora and more are still supporting the cause by signing.

On the 2nd September, 2010, we sent letters to key officers within Zain/Bharti Airtel and MTV Networks Africa, explaining the implication of the slogan on society and politely asking them to do the right thing by changing it. We also informed them about the Petition.

We have received no response to our letter till this day, even though we have acknowledgement of their receipt.

Therefore, we have brought this case to the court of Public Opinion, raising our voices against the injustices being perpetrated by these powerful giants who claim to have given us the voices in the first place.

Thus I come to you, asking you to consider this matter in your wisdom and fairness. Please analyze all sides to it and pass your fair judgment. Raise your voice in deciding this matter and let your opinion about it be heard.

All we ask is this one thing: Bharti Airtel and MTV Networks Africa please do the right thing: Change the Slogan.

It is your Corporate Social Responsibility.


Tari's blog is www.tariere.blogspot.com

Oct 13, 2010

Day 8:Fav Internet Friend

So i don't have a human internet friend, people i've warned me not to have those but i have one 'friend' its a website and its www.360nobs.com this place is just like a mini mordern village, you have everything on there so imma make you find out for urself yeap get familiar so am gonna consider myself 360 certified!