... At the foot of the Hill [Psalm 121]

Showing posts with label Nigeria. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nigeria. Show all posts

Jan 16, 2015

Will you keep quiet?


Let us pray for the change we need and also be available for service!!! 


She said to me ¨Where are you?¨
I simply replied ¨Hiding¨
Hiding in my ignorance.
This selective ignorance the shields me from her pain
Can you see her pain?
Can you feel the blood as they drip.
1 too many to continue to count.
1 by one she drops... pieces of her essence.
But NO MORE...
NO MORE, I scream.
NO MORE, I Scream..
again I Scream.
It's 2015 and its time for positive change.
It's time for me to wipe her tears, Its time for you to stop the pain.
Its time for us to stop the bloodshed.
Change is me.
Change is you.
Change is up.
Let your voice count!

#PrayForNigeria!!!!!!!!!!


Dec 11, 2014

#ThankfulThursday: Wedding Bells

Hello people,

It's another ThankfulThursday :) Whoop!!! 

It's been an amazing week and getting some time off work to just chill and catch up on my non-official back-log without any pressure was amazing!! 

Today, I am Thankful for my Sister... She got Married!! and honestly it still feels unbelievable... The wedding was amazing and I had fun, felt sooo good seeing alot of family and all. 

Here are some of the pictures;













She was a Natural hair bride. 

Hair by Onaturals

Pictures was taken by our 'friends' at Fotolighthouse :p

coming up is lessons wedding preparation has taught me! *phew*

Oct 14, 2010

Read this...

CORPORATE SOCIAL IRRESPONSIBILITY IN AFRICA: THE BHARTI AIRTEL – MTV AFRICA CASE STUDY

by Tari Ekiyor

My fellow Africans, I write this day to bring to your attention, a case of gross injustice, deception and disregard being committed against the entire nation of Africa, particularly her children.

Zain (now Bharti Airtel) and MTV Networks Africa, are the perpetrators of this bizarre crime against the collective African identity.

"Giving Africa a Voice"

This statement is the slogan attached to the MTV Africa Music Awards, sponsored by Bharti Airtel. The MTV Music Awards is MTV's signature continent specific Annual music Awards event which is held annually in celebration of musical achievement around the world.

The MTV platform is very well recognized globally, and Africa was proud when in 2008, the first ever MAMA's was held in Abuja, Nigeria. Zain has been the official sponsor since then, and still remains the official sponsor now as Bharti Airtel.

The establishment of the MAMA's is a great opportunity for the achievement of African Artistes to be celebrated on a global stage, and a number of artistes including Kenya's Nameless and Nigeria's M.I. have won the coveted award in different categories.

Fantastic as the opportunity created by the MAMA's is for African music, the claim they are making through the slogan is absurd and a slap on the face of an entire continent. How can a platform which was established in 2008 claim to have given VOICE to a continent which over the centuries has been distinctly heard through great men and women who have been her voice within her borders and beyond.

Maryam Makeba, Fela Anikulapo-Kuti, Daddy Showkey, Wole Soyinka, Chinua Achebe and even the great Nelson Mandela are all celebrated African voices. Not even mentioning those people I have never heard about who have been voices for Africa in their respective life endeavors. Were all these people given their voices by the MAMA's?

The Voice of an individual goes beyond the audible expression we hear in music, poetry or in everyday communication. Your 'Voice' is who you are. It is that unique expression of your passion, your beliefs and your values.

It is what distinguishes you from everybody else. It is what you stand for and what you represent.

Your 'Voice' is your unique identity as a human being.

It is also possible to have a collective voice as a nation, institution or a family. Corporate bodies have voices. Bharti Airtel has a voice, and so does MTV.

It is worthy of note that the MTV Awards platforms in other continents of the world do not have such a claim attached to it. Why can they get away with this open deception and patronizing statement, only here in Africa?

As a Volunteer Teacher in a public secondary school in Lagos, I was blessed to be acquainted with the most delightful set of children I have ever known. I taught Literature to students in SS1-SS3, placing them between the ages 14-17.

However, it was also a very challenging experience in terms of getting them to find and express their own opinions and ideas about themselves, their environment and the world at large. You might ask why that was so difficult for these kids, and I'll tell you:

They have been made to believe they have no VOICE.

The 'giving Africa a voice' slogan of the MAMA's ignites fire to the coal of identity dysfunction present within our collective African youth.

The endorsement of such an absurd statement by a trusted Tele-Communications Brand, is one of those 'Only in Nigeria' occurrences. Zain/Bharti Airtel primarily targets the youth sector of our population with their products.

One of the claims Zain makes in her Corporate Social Responsibility Mission Statement, is 'To produce a positive impact on society and our stakeholders, now and in the future'

Everyone knows that the youth are the prime stakeholders for the future of every nation, so by endorsing the MAMA's slogan, Zain/Bharti Airtel has failed tragically in her CSR Mission.

On the 17th of August, 2010, I published an article on my Blog, TARIERE, titled 'MTV Africa Music Awards: the Little White Lie' which raised the alarm on the lie being propagated by these corporate giants.

My readers were enlightened, and reacted with the expected angst and disappointment at the level of Corporate Irresponsibility. We went further to write an online Petition asking MTV Networks Africa and Zain to change the slogan and take responsibility for the damage caused to the psyche of African youths, by creating new Content which will bring a re-orientation to the minds of their young audience.

The Petition currently bears the signatures of young Africans both at home and in the Diaspora and more are still supporting the cause by signing.

On the 2nd September, 2010, we sent letters to key officers within Zain/Bharti Airtel and MTV Networks Africa, explaining the implication of the slogan on society and politely asking them to do the right thing by changing it. We also informed them about the Petition.

We have received no response to our letter till this day, even though we have acknowledgement of their receipt.

Therefore, we have brought this case to the court of Public Opinion, raising our voices against the injustices being perpetrated by these powerful giants who claim to have given us the voices in the first place.

Thus I come to you, asking you to consider this matter in your wisdom and fairness. Please analyze all sides to it and pass your fair judgment. Raise your voice in deciding this matter and let your opinion about it be heard.

All we ask is this one thing: Bharti Airtel and MTV Networks Africa please do the right thing: Change the Slogan.

It is your Corporate Social Responsibility.


Tari's blog is www.tariere.blogspot.com

Oct 4, 2010

Independently Independent...Naija @ 50


 
Happy Independence Nigeria. I'm being really optimistic about this country from hence forth...
the work load of the country is with you and i..
Lets join hand to make Nigeria great..

Vote wisely!!!
God bless Nigeria and its people

Sep 16, 2010

Can we just go back?

Nigeria is almost 50 but really what do we have to show for it?


I picked up an old book in the house today and on the top right coner I saw =N= 11.80k…

Just in a flash…

We stopped using coins

Just in a flash…

Everything on the supermarket stand hyped up prices – yes am old enough to say way back when I bought =N=1 sweet and 50k (not thousand oo KOBO) worth of something…

Just in a flash…

All the transport fare went from 2 digits to 3 digits

Just in a flash…

Dollar exchange rate went from =N=4 to =N=150

Just in a flash…

Trains dissappered

Just in a flash…

Corrupt leaders appear

Just in a flash…

Educational system Flawed

Just in a flash…

Health system became rotten

Just in a flash…

Standard of living went through the roof

Just in a flash…

Everything changed and not for the better…

Just in a flash….


When would we be free???

Can’t we just go back to those times??

…now I sing cece winans – mamma’s kitchen to celebrated 50th yr independence…

Aug 11, 2010

Hot Seat!!


As they say ppolitics is a dirty game but really who cares? well i dont care about politics and them presidents or governors, but if there is hype in the transport fare, airtime, noodles(my daily needs) then maybe just maybe i'll start caring but till then...

i know there are alot of people (especially girls) out there that are like me that dont care about the political sector of this country, I had a moment to reflect on this on my way home(I’ll blame it on the bad roads that made me have a bumpy ride) we really need to start caring for our country and state which now makes me think again who would win the election 2011??


Would it be Goodluck: the one that has only the goodluck for himself and sluggishness for the growth of the country?,

Dele momodu: who would (in my opinion) make Nigeria look like something out of a glossy paper and concentrate more on the entertainment industry,

Cris okotie: who would turn the country to an English class and the citizens would have to hold a

Dictionary anytime there is a presidential speech

Pat utomi: I think he is just trying to prove that he is not a quitter!

IBB: i could go on and on about how stupid he is tryin to make himself look...i think u knw d rest...

Ribadu:???

Honestly don’t know anything about all these people but the list is freaking endless and am wondering its only in NIGERIA you can have this endless list of aspirants tryin to be the No1 citizen of the country Or is that the national cake just too sweet?

Jul 29, 2010

DreaMers LounGe

A man and a woman performing a modern dance.

I have this feeling deep in my heart that am gonna be a great person but when? just like GT(the guitar boy) i ask myself when am i gonna be when i wanna be? i have a lot of stuffs really wanna achieve well passion wise i think modelling s going to top my list(this is my personal advert o incase you know pple so hook me up), my charity foundation for orphans, then i also wanna dance and i still want to do all my computer stuff too am sure if my parents hear this i mean modelling and dancing, they are gonna have my head but really whats with parents and choosing for their kids? they live their lives and they dont want to give their children that privilede too(once again i say my children would be very lucky to have me as mummy)
Back to the dreams and aspirations, people make excuses that this country is this the economy is that, but i think if you really have a dream follow it through and if you fall stand up dust yourself and try again(k now am feeling like some fela durotoye...ish) anyway now considering everything i wann do, i don't want to be like jagz  jack of all trade master of none so i ask my self  'what do i do?'
Am just gonna take each one at a time for every stage in my life and stop dreaming instead start living my dream!

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Jul 20, 2010

Sneakers craize!!! 19th July

Everyday am wondering what this annoying alarm is for? I innocently asked last night and guess what she wants to wake up to jog every morning..and she never stood up since all these days, so I just suffer interrupted sleep for nothing No way!!! Am up today and I just know I cannot be suffering for nothing so I decide to wake ma dear sister from her faraway dreamland (probably dreaming of MI well dats only where he would be..lol) she’s all sleepy but finally puts on one leg of the sneakers and could not get herself to wear the other leg after 5 mins she just dumps herself back on the bed (still with that one leg on) and sleeps back…wow so much for jogging in the morning..i just knew it would not work lets see how it goes for her probably by Friday she would have finished wearing her sneakers…
Today’s work is all good really nothing much to say about this place cos really officially v zoned out until they pay me…so I finally sent the mail requesting for my payment today oo now I just hope I get a feedback ASAP…I meet ene and olaitan (girlfriends from school) its was fun catching up and all being in the BRT with ene was probably a mistake sha cos she was gisting me about girls from school that starved themselves to get a BB and I kept laughing out loud and getting strange stares from stranger (that felt good tho’ being the centre of attraction in a bus full of almost 100 people) and am wondering na by force to buy BB??this is wat this craize has done to our youth of nowadays…Na wa o…Na real wa!!!

The day’s Cookie Crumble 18th july

Officially this is the most annoying alarm ever made abi created which eva the most annoying part is its not my alarm..its tobi’s (one of my elder sisters)and she would keep snoozing instead of putting the damn thing off…coupled with the fact that am not in a good mood again this morning but yes being in this house you have to go to church so am making an effort cos I love God and Mrs Akibo would not allow the devil posses me to staying at home…anyway church was not so bad although it was prayer all through don’t get me wrong I love prayer but not when it is too long sha… SO cuz I say am having a downtime at the moment HE calls me and sings for me…that’s like the sweetest thing anybody has ever done for me coupled with the fact that you have the most amazing voice am really glad to have you Damilare so officially am your number one fan…so ma day got a whole lot better
Ok so now SHE has started again oo...what has caused all this shouting and complaining again o…nothing I do is ever good enough for you…would you even listen to me at all then He tells me to apologize for what now? All this parents sha they think because they are parents that exclude them from apologies???its really not supposed to be that way and am really not crying cos of all u said so don’t think u make me cry am just so angry!!!so I made sure the apologies did not come out frm me cos honestly if it did It wouldn’t v been sincere…anyways at the end of the day we are good sha…I guess am just learning the things I would never do to my kids and the thing I should make an habit e.g apologizing Chai this children will enjoy ooo and am having 2 kids not 18!!!!

Jul 19, 2010

Transport3rs

I thinks this species of human beings were specially created or they just decided to go to the same school (skul of no-training) cos anywhere you are in this particularpart of the world they all have the same mentality and its really so annoying..what sori who do u think am talking about???all these commercial bus drivers and their ever present conductors, first of all they know how to collect money but its so hard to give 'change' dat is now a normal practise with them then now talk of driving skillz hmm...dats zero, they look all calm and smiley when they are calling passengers wait till they get to the steering its like they are possed or something, and then they just do anything that comes to their mind be it cursing the passengers or passing a blocked route when they can see another route that is traffic-free,forgetting that there are humans in the bus and you need to either apologise or ask for opinions well maybe i blame it on the frustration but nevertheless i don't think it should be so! then again what will people like me do now enter okada??NO way so till i get ma car i guess am stuck!!!

Jul 17, 2010

Wallpap3rs 16th july

today did not kick off so well i guess i did not wake up in a good mood and i blame it again on the rain and the fact that i woke up late now i really wish today is saturday it hurts that i have to got to work anywayz am glad its friday*yippee* that thought alone brings smile to my face, asides my bad mood today i have to conquer my hmm...what do i call this sef cos its not fear at all...well the deal is i have been working for more than 2 months and they've not paid me at all so i want to summon the courage today and send a mail asking for my salary cuz really popsi's complain about t-fare is getting too much for me to handle buh its not like i don't want to ask for ma money but i just don't like anything that would give me headache or anything that would make me prepare a speech before i talk i guess it all comes with simplicity sha...

So at the end of the day, ma day is still not looking brighter at all and since i did not get to send the mail i
was supposed to send to ask for ma money..am even sadder with myself...just hoping to get some alone time in the bus and reflect on wat exactly kept me in the bad mood...then you just decided to say something...like seriously not everybody should be given the license to open their mouth those kinda of people look good in the background as wallpapers and nothing more..so the deal is i sat beside this guy on ma ride home (no offence) at a time i just wanted him to just not say anything again cos there were a lot of off-points in the talk and of cause thats not my thing buh since am very patient i endured it all to the last 'takia of urself bye' phew...dat was some endurance trek or should i say drive..without going to NYSC camp..(ok that was a dry one i would try harder next time)...so now its time to go to bed wait oh not until i talk to sope (oh dats ma bff)...mayb ma day wld not be so bad after all...

Jul 16, 2010

15 july

I get to work late today and No! its not cos of my oversleeping, mummy delayed me today..well history right?? yeah history is the rest...so am unexplainably happy today and the rounds of disk cleanup for the week is going well, i had sports and elan desk to attend to and it was fun at least i laughed and maybe i was wrong about this place being just for grown-ups i am just in the grown-up section i guess..Going home today was just messy thanks to the rain for soiling my day with mud and it has given the bus drivers the licence to increase the normal #150 fare down to ikorodu to #200...rain thanks whole lot!!but i know that when i get home am gonna be consoled with good food so am not so bothered

P.S: the men-in-black were not in sight(just as i thought)

smiley...14th july

The only reason why this post has a title regardingsmile..is cos smeone asked me 'have you made someone smile today?'
So the day starts as usual a very sleepy bus ride to work and jumping buses and all get to work and still doing my round of disk clean up and defrag for the week, i know its not more thn that but i just feel this joy when am coming to work knowing that i v work to do is that supposed to make me happy??knowing that they have not paid me? really i don't care i love the feeling of responsibility..its all good sha so i think am gradually getting out of ma office shell...

Transit is another buzz worthy part of myday...please can you move your behind did i send you to lap someone before you start sitting on my own leg mmsshewwww this people can be so annoying i won't let this spoil my already good day...moving on i get to ojota and i see people crossing the road hmm...i just knew that the non-efficient men-in-black were not that efficient...after forcing people to climb the pedestrian bridge for 3 weeks now they've left but atleast they still stayed for up to 3 weeks!! 3 weeks o people not 3 dayz..now thats commendable..very unusual men-in-black behaviour if u ask me..Oh k time to hit the ever present ikorodu road ttraffic *yawns* come to think of it as much as we don't want traffic its still feels very abnormal and unusual when there is non!!!.....zzzz

The Journey so far...

Since i just wanna start the daily thingy i'ld just gradually give the load down on things that v happened before since i started work (the memorable ones)...so all the happening that happened before i got a job is gone into the history books cos its all long story jare but i just Thank God i sha got the job! started work 12th may really on this day i wz the happiest person on planet earth at that moment just recently broke up with my then boyfriend chai another long story i was pretty optimistic and ready to start and enjoy my single life with the new job, hoping to meet alot of people and make new friends but i got a shocker!!! i am in an office with people way older than i am...i feel so young well ofcourse am young bt being here makes me feel like am 12 or something so am all quiet and not saying jack(and i think its going to be like this till the end of IT because ofcourse they are not going to overnight become age group or would they??) anywayz they think am shy dats not even half of it at all..what exactly am i supposed to be saying when there is talk of my husband, my wife, my kids going on in the air..i dont think there is much to contribute if u ask me and much less from a 19yr old girl hmm...so there goes my hope of having fun in this IT...against the stone..

Technology Intern

So the concept of this is to talk about my life as a technology intern in timbuktu media and all my everyday finding and hmm..transit..the posts are kinda goin to be in 2 sections work part and transit (things i think would be funny or buzz-worthy)..i really hope i can pull this off till the end of my IT and even after, even when am nt inspired to write i'll try my best to keep up...xoxo

Jul 5, 2010

Confession of a Sleepaholic

4.30 alarm goes off...than i press stop..now wake up at 5.58am...oh shit am late AGAIN!!!
Now looking out the cab every morning, my mind is everywhere but there then gradually...they begin to slid down and down and down..not my mind jor my eyes..its just 30mins drive to the bus-stop and am sleeping in the cab ALREADY..Now am going to leave out the almost 2hr drive to my office well i guess you can imagine the rest...anywayz since the rate at which i started sleeping wz ALARMING and ofcourse am not pregnant..i just keep asking myself ''what is causing all of this??'' no answer come but then again i know whats wrong its called L.A.S.G.D.I.STRESS...i know its too early to complain but mehn..Its crazy, its just been 2 months and a couple of weeks traffic here traffic there..then jumping buses..hmm..don't even want to go there.I think we the upcomping generation need to do somthing about lagos(i kow thats a whole lot of work) but its worth the try..buh till then i think i really have to go back to sleep...zzzzz

Jun 9, 2010

Ear-less!!!

Where are the ears of the youths of this generation? Where is the generation that learn from other people's experience? where is the generation that believe their body is the temple of the lord and not some toy to be played with by a guy? I ask myself this questions when i start hearing true life stories of our generation, they prefer the 'experience is the best teacher' adage of which Yes! i agree to some extent but not when that experience will tanish your image and your future why dont we all just learn from people that have made those mistakes...i was with a friend sometime last week and we got talking well mostly about girls and the mistakes they make and a story of a girl who has a boyfriend of 3 yrs...and a yr and a half gone into the relationship sex was introduced few months later she missed her period 'cliche rite??' well yes kinda but why must it be a normal thing? cos i wonder why you would want to have sex with a guy and not use protection knowing the concequences, for crying out loud its all over the media...what do we listen to these days its really sad and knowing this is happening in this present generation 'jet age' like they say its even sadder...it makes me wonder if the next genration would even be born with ears at all(I pray so!!!)...come to think of it, it really begins with you!!!

Fabulous Single Life Pt1

why must everything have its pros and cons???
Ok!i got single a couple of months ago exactly one and a half months ago...long story...(post later)

Its not really like am having a blast being single and all but really i must confess its really cool, the fact that you are not anwering to anybody, u are not obliged to call and send text messages, u can go out with anybody without having a jealous somebody asking u silly questions, best part u av loads of guys on ur list trying to take u out (for d fine ones sha!!!)...But for me hmm...my single life so far has really been dulling, if i was nt on dis IT of a thing then i probably would av more time for myself but come to thing of it this so called single freedom and girl power as u would like to call it comes with its own large share of'cons' being that it comes with alot of loneliness..really girls lets face it, you may go out and have the fun of your life all day but at the end of the day you just long for that one person, that special person that you can lean on when there is no one else, i know cos i feel that too sometimes even if i try to assure myself that i only need God in my life for now but the truth be told...just want you to know you are not alone on this one...But really its better to be alone with God than deep your hands in sin!!!