Confessions of a Horny Virgin: What really Counts

Posted by Tomi O on Friday, December 20, 2013 with 21 comments
Hello Everyone,

Welcome once again, and If you've not been following the series click here for the previous episodes and yes *sniff* *sniff* Its the last episode *pouts* I had fun. But lets proceed shall we? :)


In the past 2 weeks you've come here to read me relay a part my story. You either stopped by because of the catchy Title or to feed your curiosity about where I am taking this to. For whatever reason you opened the link, I really hope you enjoyed reading it and it blessed your life in one way or another.

I said in the last post how I was on the board of Directors of How-much-can-I-get-away-with-and-still-be-saved.

I grew up with the notion that Virginity meant not getting pregnant before I married, I guess because of the emphasis on "If you get pregnant, You will drop out", so doing everything BUT penetrate was totally fine for me.
I always knew what I did wasn't right but I would sooth my conscience with "I sha didn't have sex"

In my moment of curiosity I watched some porn and at some point touched my self, Which was inevitable with the constant junk I feed my eyes and ears. I was trapped, the Devil lied to me that I really shouldn't talk about it, I will be judged and no one really wants to know the filth you engage in behind closed doors. I believed and kept quiet.

Its a lie, You are not alone AND you can be free.

Alot of people when talking about Virginity keep giving the Impression that being a Virgin means not having sex before marriage and alot of people grow up with that at the back of their minds, little emphasis is laid on Purity.

I discovered (While studying the word) that my body is the temple of the Lord, Why would I want to give a piece of Gods sacred place to anyone and everyone that comes my way?

Now, I believe that the focus should be purity and not just "Be a virgin", Virginity is a product of purity. It is not going to be a walk in the park.

Everyday is a battle between you and your flesh and we are more than conquerors through him that Loves us.

Oh. Some days you will fall, but like me, I encourage you to be the one that falls 6 times and rises up 7 times. The Grace of God is not an avenue to bask in sin, but a knowledge of him who is faithful and Just to forgive and doesn't record our sins against us.

I re-iterated and decided to stay pure. Have I fallen short since then? Yes, Did I stand up? Yes. Does God look at me, dust me up and draw me back into his embrace EVERYTIME? Yes.

Is it ever late? No

Will he do the same for you? Absolutely.

Want him to do it for you? Say this prayer with me:

Heavenly father, I acknowledge that I have done wrong and misused my body out of Ignorance, have mercy on me. I present my body to you as a living sacrifice and I ask that you help me keep it pure as you intended in the beginning. Thank you for your ever present help. In Jesus name. Amen

Yaay!! Congratulations and yes, Lets continue in the purity Journey shall we?

:) Thank you all for Having me here and for the encouraging comments. I had maximum fun!

Adriana.

P.S: I have gotten some stories of people the want to share their, We would post it over the next weeks as we get the entries, If you want to share your story to encourage someone or to talk about your journey as a virgin send a mail to [tomi.akibo@gmail.com] Or if you just want to talk, I'm open as well.

Thank yooou!!!

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